Will it EVER end??

Okay, so I have something to say to all the boys out there, who would like to be men someday... or already do think they are, whatever the case may be.... SAY WHAT YOU MEAN!! If you have a problem or don't like something or can't do something, please just say it... women take things at more than face value. If your definition of "friends", is only calling occassionally when you are bored, that is not friendship. If you can't talk to someone but still say you want to be friends, don't say that you do. Friendship or any kind of relationship is about being able to call on someone for advice whenever they need it, not when it is convienant for the other one to listen. It may hurt us, but in the long run, we appreciate your complete honesty a whole lot more, than you trying to spare our feelings or your own. Just rip the bandaid off, we may whine or cry like a baby for a few text messages or voicemails or too our other friends for a few days but its good for our soul to know exactly where we stand... even if you think that we should know where we stand. I am not sure if I am making any kind of sense, but I need to say this. The longer you don't say it, the harder it will be in the end. I don't think that is what any of you boys intend, at least the part of me that says people are genuinely good at heart...